Parenting: Ground Rules

Level 1

We take a break if we can't control the tone of our voice, but we always revisit the conversation. Yelling undermines resolution and respect. We address disagreements by speaking calmly and staying focused on the issue, not emotions. Each person gets their turn to speak without interruption, ensuring everyone feels heard. This rule fosters constructive conversations, where problems are addressed clearly, not clouded by anger. Respectful discussion, even in conflict, strengthens understanding and keeps communication effective. By staying composed, we resolve issues faster and with less frustration. We talk it out, not shout it out. We solve problems with respect, not volume. We speak softly, even when we disagree.

We take a break if we can't control our tears, but we always revisit the conversation. Crying can make it hard for others to communicate openly and honestly. In our family, we focus on sharing our thoughts calmly and clearly without tears, which helps everyone feel comfortable contributing to the discussion. Emotional control is essential to maintaining productive conflict resolution, and it ensures each person's perspective is heard without interruption. By keeping emotions in check, we create a constructive space for everyone to engage fully and resolve issues with clarity and mutual respect.

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Communication

Our communication avoids vague phrases like "and stuff" or "you know." Instead, we focus on using descriptive language to clearly explain what happened, providing enough detail for others to fully understand the situation. This means slowing down, thinking before we speak, and choosing words that paint a clear picture. By avoiding filler words and speaking with intention, we ensure our communication is thoughtful, accurate, and precise, fostering better understanding and stronger relationships.